Body image and media skills are areas that are poorly addressed in the KS1 and 2 landscape, yet the risks associated with poor media use and damaging self-image are widespread and growing. Circus Door have developed a curriculum to tackle just this issue.
Here you can find a sample and if you would like any more information, please don't hesitate to contact us: emihowe@outlook.com
Introduction
Welcome to the Primary Education Body Image and Media Skills Work Pack. Body image
and concerns around it are emerging as a significant and growing problem among
children of primary age. Children as young as three years old are identifying
with diet culture[i],
by the age of five girls start to have appearance conversations and can
restrict food (34%)[ii],
at nine a girl’s self-esteem peaks and by ten,
81% of girls are afraid of getting fat[iii].
Researchers have proved links between food restriction in adolescence and
weight gain in later life as counterproductive behavioural patterns emerge.[iv]
The National Education Union:
‘Girls as young as five were worrying
about their size and appearance. That from as young as seven, girls say they
feel embarrassed and ashamed of how they look.’
As we ready children for key stage 3, the Girl Guides tell us
that:
Almost half of girls (45%) sometimes feel ashamed of the way they look
because they are not like girls and women in the media. The numbers who feel
this way increase from 36% among those aged 11 to 16, to 52% of girls
aged 17 to 21.
While traditionally something that impacts girls, we are now
seeing more and more boys experiencing feelings of body dissatisfaction and a
desire to have a certain type of body.
With this work pack we aim to remind our young people that a range
of different bodies is natural in society and that one of the healthiest things
we can do is to celebrate and be proud of our unique and special bodies. The
resources are created to counter the statistics above but also as a means to
address body-related bullying, othering and exclusion. Providing children with
the opportunity to leave their primary education with a positive self-regard
and greater respect for their peers.
I hope you find the work pack useful and welcome any feedback: emihowe@outlook.com
Trigger
Warning
It’s not always easy talking about bodies, even as adults the narrow idea of “the good body” can be strong as it is deeply ingrained in our culture and particularly our media. Most of us haven’t had this learning input in our lives and some of us may have received repeated false information about bodies. The work pack offers a way to start difficult conversations and explore the most important relationship we’ll ever have – the one with ourselves.
It can be triggering doing this work so please be gentle with
yourself and mindful of other colleagues. If it brings up any feelings or
resistance these can be helpful areas to explore either alone by journaling, or
talking with a trusted friend or with a counsellor or by contacting one of the
support links in the resource section.
If you would like to gain a greater understanding of the subject
and learn more about the development of the work pack you can read my story: The Body Hoax – How to Stop Believing
in Fantasy Bodies
I also offer workplace training through the BodEquality Body Image Training at
Work
And finally a TED talk.
Using the
work pack
Included in this pack are three assembly plans and classroom lesson
plans differentiated into year groups. This is with a view that the pack can be
used as a whole school project, reused to reinforce learning in future years or
adapted to your needs. The work pack is a great addition to your PSHE programme
and will support your anti-bullying strategies.
Safeguarding
As a matter of safeguarding, it’s vital that no one feels made an
example of or has unwanted attention brought to them in the process of this
work. It’s important therefore that the children know that this can be a
difficult subject and that when we talk about it, we don’t use people’s names
or use examples of people present.
We can be conscious that body feelings can apply not just to the
individual but to family members too. For example a child may feel very
self-conscious of a parent’s body or may even be bullied about it.
Away from this programme when we talk about health, going forward,
we can be mindful not to attach health to body shape and it gives us an
opportunity to reinforce that there are many ways to have a healthy body,
including a healthy mind and healthy feelings.
Assembly –
The Good Body Myth
Introduction
Explain that in today’s assembly, you will be thinking about
bodies - start with two truths
Truth number one
We all have a body and our relationship with it is the longest one
we’ll ever have
Truth number two
Everybody’s body is different
Then pose a question to the assembly – what makes a good body?
The feedback might be really positive and full of great things we
can do with our bodies and it may also have some feedback that includes a more
narrow view of what makes a good body – thin or strong or big or small.
Ask another question – ask the students to have a think – what is
special or unique about your body?
Take a few responses
At the end of the discussion admit to the assembly, it was a trick
question. All bodies are good bodies. They support us all in different ways
because we’re all different and that is natural and normal. Take a look around
any public space and you’ll see it’s true. At the supermarket, at the swimming
pool, at the park.
What is The Good Body Myth?
Explain that sometimes the messages we get from the world around
us, give us a narrow idea of what a good body is. This is the Good Body Myth.
This is especially true when we watch TV or use devices. The world that we see
electronically through the tv or online often shows a world that isn’t real and
doesn’t show a realistic mix of bodies. So we can come to believe that all
bodies should be like the ones we see there.
This can lead to other myths such as, I should change my body
or I need to be tall and thin to be popular or I need to be muscly to
play football. In reality we all have a body to be proud of and over our
lifetimes our bodies will change and at different times. We are all born with
different types of bodies and will grow up to be different shapes, heights,
hair colour…
If there is an adult in the room, proud of their different body
(with prior consent) perhaps you could explore this together.
How might this impact bullying?
Explain how this might impact people in the form of bullying (avoid
opening it up to discussion). If we wrongly believe that some bodies are
better than others, you might start to believe that some people are better than
others because of their bodies and that could be a real shame, for you and for
others.
You might miss out on getting to know that person better if you
judge them just by how they look. Sometimes people can be called names because
of how they look, they can be left out of games or made to feel different and
it can be very hurtful.
Conclusion
Explain that this has been a great introduction to talking about
bodies and thank the assembly for their input.
Explain that they will cover more in their classrooms and there are two
more assemblies to come to think more about our Amazing bodies!
Finish with the assembly repeating “All bodies are good bodies!”
until you feel it’s loud enough!
[i]
PACEY, (2016)
Children as Young as Three Unhappy with their Bodies. https://www.pacey.org.uk/news-and-views/news/archive/2016-news/august-2016/children-as-young-as-3-unhappy-with-their-bodies/
[ii]
Damiano SR, Paxton SJ, Wertheim EH, McLean
SA, Gregg KJ. Dietary restraint of 5-year-old girls: Associations with
internalization of the thin ideal and maternal, media, and peer influences. Int
J Eat Disord. 2015 Dec;48(8):1166-9. doi: 10.1002/eat.22432. Epub 2015 Aug 18.
PMID: 26283500.
[iii]
Mellin, Laurel M., et al.
"Prevalence of disordered eating in girls: a survey of middle-class
children." Journal of the American Dietetic Association,
vol. 92, no. 7, July 1992, pp. 851+. Gale OneFile: Health and
Medicine, link.gale.com/apps/doc/A12993083/HRCA?u=anon~e2e5b62e&sid=googleScholar&xid=e4d2db3b.
[iv]
Grabe, S. et al.
(2008) The Role of the Media in Body Image Concerns Among Women: A
Meta-Analysis of Experimental and Correlational Studies in American Psychological
Association 2008 Vol 134, No 3, 460-476
[v] CAP/BCAP (2018) Gender
stereotypes in advertising CAP and BCAP’s evaluation of responses, https://www.asa.org.uk/uploads/assets/uploaded/03e2fb9c-f878-4c65-81344257b667d1ab.pdf